Showing posts with label teshuva. Show all posts
Showing posts with label teshuva. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

We cannot rely on anyone but Hashem -- אנחנו לא יכולים לסמוך על אף אחד, אבל קב"ה

The Obama re-election is good for Jews.  Obviously, this is what Hashem has planned, and according to His Will.  Who among us lowly creatures knows, maybe he will fit the role of Gog (of Magog) very well and hasten the coming of Moshiach.

Hurricane Sandy is good spiritually for the Jews.  There is so much soul searching to be done.   We may have over-indulged in gashmius (materialism) in our lives.  All the gashmius we have taken years to accumulate can be gone in a day or less.  Do we need such a big house?  Do we need so much Jewish entertainment?  Do we need so much money, when we only need the basic sustainence (food, water, clothing, heat and Torah) to survive, especially in an emergency?

Obama and Israel. When is Israel going to learn?

“Obama’s victory demonstrates that the state of Israel must take care of its own interests,” Danon said. “We cannot rely on anyone but ourselves.  (WND)
The above statement could have been written this way.  "WE CANNOT RELY ON ANYONE BUT HASHEM."  But it wasn't.  Until then, Obama and Ahmedinejad and all our Moslem brothers who want to kill us are good for us, the Jews.  Because we have yet to learn the lesson.  Hashem is very patient.  He is still waiting for us to do teshuva -- and in the meantime, He brings us anti-semitism, earthquakes, hurricanes, tornados, fire, kassams, rockets, nuclear bomb.

There are many shiurim related to Sandy.  Go to TorahAnytime,com and LearnTorah.com and you will find them.  Sandy happened in the same parshas Vayera, where the Jews are compared to the stars of the heavens and the sands of the seashore.  (Verse 22:17) What perfect timing!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Modern Day Dina bat Leah -- דינה בת לאה המודרנית

Modern-day Dina bat Leah was 20 years old when she decided to join the Palestinians and lived with them under a life of abuse.  She was rescued in July, 2012 by Yad L'Achim, a Jewish anti-missionary organization in Israel.


For the full-story, go here.

Even though Dina has decided to remove her Arab garbs, may she learn to embrace the holy Jewish garbs and cover her hair as a married woman, and not fall into the Erev Rav's hands.

Yad L'Achim is one of my favorite Israeli charities. During the Yamim Noraim (Days of Awe), support this organization to save the Israeli Jews from the murderous and barbaric Arab hands.

Apparently, the Arab Bedouins are also concerned about the high alarming intermarriage rate among Arabs and Jews.

It isn't just the Jews who are concerned about intermarriage with Arabs. A hard-hitting documentary on Jewish girls marrying Arab men that aired recently on Israel's Hot 3 TV station revealed that the Bedouin community also opposes intermarriage.

Reporter Ahmed Abu Swiss noted that the phenomenon is growing at an alarming rate. "We're no longer talking about 15 or 20 men [who've married Jews]," he reported on the program, which aired on Dec. 28, 2011. "There are neighborhoods in which more than 50 men are married to Jews."

Abu Swiss added that Bedouin sheikhs are very concerned about the trend and speak out against it in the mosques. They preach that assimilation is against the Bedouin tradition and results in many Bedouin women remaining single until 35, since the available men are marrying Jews.

In a similar vein, Sheikh Faiz Abu Seheban, the mayor of the Bedouin town of Rahat, recently spoke out against Arab men marrying Jewish women. He told Ilana Dayan, the host of the hugely popular Uvda investigative news program, that a majority of Arabs viewed these relationships in an unfavorable light and that they were like trying to mix oil and water.

In the next video interviewing an Arab man, he emphasizes that the Arab men are at a top "level" and hence, Jewish women are not fitting for them.   Let them think however they want, but there is a truth to this -- Jewish women are not fitting for the Arab men or any other non-Jewish men, period.  Jewish women are princesses of the King of kings, what are they doing mixing with the umos haolam?


Friday, September 14, 2012

Rosh Hashana is not only a holiday for the Jews, ראש השנה היא לא רק חג ליהודים

Rabbi Mizrachi on "Last Call for Teshuva," reminding us that Rosh Hashana is a judgement day for the whole world, not only for Jews.  Non-Jews should watch this too.





Thursday, August 30, 2012

Best Tisha B'Av Message 2012 by Rabbi Bentzion Shafier, הודעה הכי טוב בתשעה באב ע"י רבי בנציון שפיר

On this past Tisha B'Av, I was watching a lot of live streaming from TorahAnytime.com and LearnTorah.com.  This segment by Rabbi Bentzion Shafier, IMHO, was the most significant.  I'm glad that TorahAnytime.com was able to capture it and uploaded it to their website (the reason for the Internet).

In this shiur, you'll learn about Dovid HaMelech and his quest for being on par with the Avos and his test that he failed with Bat Sheva, the difference between the Yetzer Hara of a Malach (angel) and of an Adam (man), the levels of modesty that has declined over the century, and what life will be like after Moshiach comes, according to the view of the Rambam.

It is a must watch for all Yidden (except children), it has parenting advice, marriage advice, self-growth advice, teshuva advice and the Internet!

To watch, go here:
We need Moshiach now, and let's do enough teshuva to merit him b'rachamim.

Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Most important Elul, אלול החשוב ביותר

Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi's latest shiur about the most important Elul, last chance for teshuva.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Do You Care If Moshiach Comes? אכפת לך אם המשיח מגיע?

"Do You Care if Moshiach Comes" is the title of the shiur given by Rabbi Joey Haber of LearnTorah.com. It is an excellent shiur.  The Rabbi tries to answer a series of questions he compiled from his followers in the past how many years ago and brings answers from different sources. The Rabbi quotes the Rambam that Moshiach doesn't have to prove himself by doing miracles, as well as quotes other sources that say otherwise. The Rabbi also covers a little bit of history on Bar Kochba, whom Rabbi Akiva himself was certain he was Moshiach. (In one of my earlier posts, I stated a source that Rabbi Akiva thought that BK was Moshiach ben Yosef, not MBD).

The Rabbi also states that throughout history false messiahs appear before the real Moshiach, so that it would rile up the Jews to think about redemption. The false messiahs include JC, Shabtai Tzvi, Bar Kochba and others.  Interestingly, the article that CNN published concerning Christopher Columbus on his yahrzeit was mentioned as well.  This article, probably written by non-Jews, brought proofs that Columbus was a secret Jew (maranos).  These proofs were based on his last will and testament as well as his correspondence to his son and his financiers as follows:

Two of his wishes -- tithe one-tenth of his income to the poor and provide an anonymous dowry for poor girls -- are part of Jewish customs. He also decreed to give money to a Jew who lived at the entrance of the Lisbon Jewish Quarter.
On those documents, Columbus used a triangular signature of dots and letters that resembled inscriptions found on gravestones of Jewish cemeteries in Spain. He ordered his heirs to use the signature in perpetuity.
 At the top left-hand corner of all but one of the 13 letters written by Columbus to his son Diego contained the handwritten Hebrew letters bet-hei, meaning b'ezrat Hashem (with God's help). Observant Jews have for centuries customarily added this blessing to their letters. No letters to outsiders bear this mark, and the one letter to Diego in which this was omitted was one meant for King Ferdinand.

Scholars point to the date on which Columbus set sail as further evidence of his true motives. He was originally going to sail on August 2, 1492, a day that happened to coincide with the Jewish holiday of Tisha B'Av, marking the destruction of the First and Second Holy Temples of Jerusalem. Columbus postponed this original sail date by one day to avoid embarking on the holiday, which would have been considered by Jews to be an unlucky day to set sail. (Coincidentally or significantly, the day he set forth was the very day that Jews were, by law, given the choice of converting, leaving Spain, or being killed.)
Columbus' voyage was not, as is commonly believed, funded by the deep pockets of Queen Isabella, but rather by two Jewish Conversos and another prominent Jew. Louis de Santangel and Gabriel Sanchez advanced an interest free loan of 17,000 ducats from their own pockets to help pay for the voyage, as did Don Isaac Abrabanel, rabbi and Jewish statesman.
Indeed, the first two letters Columbus sent back from his journey were not to Ferdinand and Isabella, but to Santangel and Sanchez, thanking them for their support and telling them what he had found.
 The Rabbi does mention the war of Gog uMagog and hopes that it has already occurred as in the 2nd World War, and that we will merit no more wars before Moshiach. The Rabbi also mentions the Internet Asifa and how we are all "lost" to this situation of controlling our access to it.  The whole world needs a wakeup call and we need Moshiach desperately to change our way of life and our way of connecting to Hashem. 

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Jews in Iran, היהודים באיראן

It's interesting to note that the Jewish community in Iran is by far pretty large, 25,000. These Jews are "protected" under Shariah Law, which has both advantages and disadvantages.  However, they are supposedly not harrassed unless being accused as spying for Israel, the state.  Due to the Islamic regime, more Jews have done teshuva and returned to Hashem in Iran.  The married women cover their hair (with scarves) thus, according to our holy Sages (including The Chofetz Chaim) brings blessings to the community.  If the married Jewish women in SOI (State of Israel) were to cover their hair too, they also would bring blessings to SOI.  But alas, that's not so.


There are tombs of tzadikim in Iran today - - Daniel, Mordechai, Ester, Habakuk, Chananiah, Mishael and Azariah. Watch the 3rd video below.

There are four Jewish charity hospitals in Iran, owned by Jews but employ both Jews and moslems.  Jews apparently are doing well in this country, living under Moslem rule.  If Iran were to take over the SOI today, would the Jews be safer in Israel or in Iran?  Probably in Iran, as long as you live with a low profile and not say anything against the regime. Well, this is true too in Israel -- limited free speech.  Ok, SOI will allow Arab Moslems to speak out against Israel, but will not allow Jews to speak out against Israel.  So, which is better? Living under Zionist rule, or under Islamic rule?

Many Iranian Jews made aliyah and were disappointed, the same way, many American Jews who made aliyah and were disappointed as well for similar reasons.

Some Iranian Jews have come to Israel only to be disappointed because of the lack of religious observance and the immodesty that prevails on the street. They are bothered especially by the rude and rowdy behavior that the kids pick up in the schools. They make the mistake thinking that the Israeli secular school is similar to the schools in Iran where modesty and respect are part of the daily life. Unfortunately, they are disturbed to see the disgraceful manner in which their children begin to behave when they enter the secular Israeli school system. On the other hand they do not want to send their children to the religious schools because they want their children to have a strong secular education. Source: JewishMag

Regardless, living under Islamic rule, would require the Jewish women to be modest.  That is most important. Modesty brings blessings, regardless of whether you are in Israel, in America or in Iran.  The disadvantages are due to shariah law, discrimination against non-moslems in various areas of work and government is apparent, similar to many other shariah-law governments.

Here are few videos showing Jewish life in Iran, from various points of view.








And lastly, a secular video about the Cyrus Cylinder, which contains the history of the Persian Jews during Cyrus' permission to let the Jews return to Israel to rebuild the Temple. However, that was short-lived, as when the Jews left, the Persian economics collapsed and the Jews who haven't yet crossed the Euphrates River (to the west) had to be recalled. You can imagine Wall Street collapsing because there's no Jew left there.




Finally, a worldwide Tehillim invite to recite these chapters - 28,32,79,92 and 22 - tomorrow, on Taanis  Esther at 11 am your local time for unity.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Judaism is LIFE, יהדות היא חיים

Rabbi Wallerstein speaks about Judaism, and why so many Jews are lost to it -- especially Jews who are supposedly raised in a frum household.  Judaism is LIFE. Everything you do, from the moment you wake up until you sleep, is an opportunity to connect to Hashem.

Rabbi Wallerstein also speaks about the lost Jews with a claim to fame -- Devorah Feldman, in connection with this week's Parsha Terumah.




Ohr Na'avah might be a good place for Ms. Feldman.

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Moshiach, Tisha B'Av 5772, מושיח תשעה באב 5772

Moriya's Place is pleased to post about this shiur before anyone else in blogo sphere.

This shiur is for ladies but is applicable to every Jew, I believe. Mrs Iris Odani Elyashiv speaks about Moshiach coming this Tisha B'Av 5772 and quotes many, many sources, previously hidden from us because we were not ready. Now, grab your seat belt, and listen to the shiur, and be inspired to do teshuva to be ready for Moshiach when he comes. Because, after he comes, there is no more chance to do teshuva. Mrs. Elyashiv also speaks about the upcoming war of Gog u'Magog and according to her will continue for 27 years. I don't understand that part.

UPDATE  -- Thanks to Google, and Yeranen Yaakov (who also links to this post) has a 2011 article explaining the 27 years:

Here, the Zohar speaks about the 27 years until the end of the century, that in the 73rd year, the war against Yerushalayim will begin, and HKB"H will rain down great hailstones upon the nations of the world, and the period of Mashiah Ben David will begin - that he will be energized to fight the wars of Hashem, and these wars will last 27 years until the end of the century, and then will be the complete unification [of Hashem's Name] and the complete ingathering of the exiles.
So, it seems to me that if MBD comes first before Gog uMagog, there is going to be a lot of war going on which, chas v'shalom, will result in 2/3 of the world being destroyed.  If Gog UMagog comes first before MBD, then the war will only last a few minutes.  Hmm... which one would I prefer?  I would prefer the latter path, of course!  I guess, the excitement about Moshiach coming and having to go through 27 years of war and suffering is not the ideal situation.  But since we have lost our merits of deserving MBD achishenah, we will now have to pay the price for it, suffering with Moshiach.

 If you would like to continue learning with her on teshuva by studying the book of Tomer Devorah (not the blogger!), you can do so at TorahAnytime.com, search for Mrs Elyashiv. Her lectures are for women only!




The most important thing is teshuva.  Rabbi Shimon b. Pazzi said: R. Yehoshua b. Levi said in the name of Bar Kappara: "All who observe the three meals of the Sabbath are spared three calamities: the pangs of the Moshiach, the judgment of Gehinnom, and the war of Gog uMagog. 

Maybe some of you will be distracted by the idea of packing up to go to EY.  Well, do not be distracted and just narrowly-focus on this goal.  Returning to EY without teshuva is not going to save you.  Being in EY is not going to save you. In fact, that is where the brunt of the war of Gog uMagog is going to take place. It has its effects all over the world, I'm sure.  The most important thing is teshuva!  For the men, you must focus on Torah learning, the women, you must focus on the mitzvah of tznius, and encouraging your men (husband and sons) to learn Torah.  Even Mrs Elyashiv is not hurrying up to go back to EY, she is spending the rest of the time teaching Tomer Devorah to encourage us to do teshuva.  Yes, we must have in our minds , preparing to return to EY.  But, let Moshiach lead us to EY, not NBN.

Torah Anytime is not really publicizing this shiur as they would other shiurim, in fact, they are keeping a low profile about it and are not explaining themselves why they are keeping quiet. 

Friday, December 30, 2011

Understanding the Shema Prayer -- להבין על תפילת שמע

If you want to understand more about Krias Shema, open your heart to listening to this shiur by Rav Yedid Meyer.  The mention of לב (heart) is repetitious to teach us many things.  The heart is the conduit to knowing and loving Hashem. How do we get our heart to do so? For the men, that would be learning Torah.  For the women, that would be modesty.  How do the men protect themselves from straying?  By the mitzvah of tzitzis, as a reminder of their obligations to Hashem.  What if men encounter pritzus (vice) on the streets?  He wouldn't have to worry if he encounters them without the intention to seek them.  The only problem comes when he has a desire to seek, i.e to stray after his heart to go after "other gods."  If he develops a desire to explore the "other side" then he is responsible for his actions.  If by walking on the streets of Manhattan, and vice appears all over the place, then he's not responsible if he guards his eyes and not look.  

The phrase "other gods" is no longer limited to rocks and stones.  They are anything that would win you to the side of the Yetzer Hara, for e.g. pursuing the latest fashions, getting lost in social media networking (Facebook, Twitter, FaceGlatt, including reading too much news and blogs that are empty of Torah content), following the wimps of society, buying the latest gadgets and electronics (iPhone, Kindle, etc.) etc. 

To learn from the shiur, go here.

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Yavan and Yonah, יון ויונה

I heard this short Divrei Torah which I find fascinating and thought I'd pass it along.  The source is from Rabbi Laris of Eretz Yisrael.

The Greeks are called Yavan, spelled in Hebrew יון.  The message of this name is that when a Jew starts to sin, he is like the י of Yavan, and then he sins some more, he is like the ו of Yavan, and if he continues to sin until he falls, he is like the ן of Yavan.  The three letters show the descent from י to ו to ן, each letter getting longer and longer to the point of no return.  The message of Chanukah is to not stumble like a Hellenist (Greek) Jew.

However, if the Jew catches himself before he sins any further, by attaching himself to Hashem, let's say he's at the יו stage, and he attaches himself to Hashem by doing teshuva, then the ן of Yavan becomes a regular נ, and by attaching to Hashem, he adds the letter ה to his name, thus becoming a יונה, or YONAH.  In English, Yonah spells DOVE, the symbol of the Jewish people.  Isn't that nice?

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

How to Observe Chanukah, כיצד להתבונן חנוכה

LAWS OF CHANUKAH

-- by Rabbi Dov Miller

While assimilation is a major problem among Jews today, in the days of the second Bais Hamikdash (the Temple), assimilation was government policy. Led by their king Antiochus, the Greeks banned Torah study, looted property belonging to the Jews, and violated young Jewish women.

The Greeks finally entered the Temple and defiled almost all the oil in the sanctuary. Three miracles then occurred:

  • the Chashmonayim, the greatly outnumbered family of priests who fought the Greeks, proved victorious;

  • one small flask of oil with the seal of the Kohen Gadol (the High Priest) was discovered to be still intact;

  • and, with that one flask of oil, the light in the menorah in the Temple lasted for eight days, until newly squeezed pure olive oil became available.

The following year the Rabbis established the eight days, beginning with the 25th day of Kislev (the day that the victory took place), as a festival for praise and thanks to
G-d. They called the holiday Chanukah (Chanu [they rested]; kah [25th]).


Materials for the Menorah

Because the miracle of Chanukah involved olive oil, it is preferable to use olive oil for the menorah. Similarly, it is preferable to use cotton or flax wicks. Nonetheless, almost any oil and wick or any candle can be used.

The lights should be in a straight line so that the number of burning lights is easily recognizable.

The mitzva of the menorah is the act of lighting. Therefore, the proper amount of fuel must be in the menorah at the time of lighting (adding oil after lighting does not help if the proper amount was not in the menorah during lighting). Initially, there should be enough fuel to burn at least half an hour after nightfall.

An electric menorah should not be used.


Placement of the Menorah


Since the purpose of lighting the menorah is to publicize the miracle—pirsumei nissah—the menorah should be placed in view of as many people as possible. It is preferable to put the menorah in a window facing the street. If a person lives in a tall apartment building, placement becomes a bit more complicated and a Rabbi should be consulted. If there is no window facing the street, then the menorah should be placed next to an open front door, opposite the mezuza.

The menorah should be set on a surface between 12 to 40 inches from the ground.
The menorah should be put in its proper place before lighting and not moved after it is lit. When lighting more than one menorah in an area, they should be spaced so that each set of lights is distinguishable from the others.



Time of Lighting

The best time to light the menorah is when night begins—when three stars come out. If this is not possible, the menorah can be lit at a later time, as long as there is another member of the household awake or, if living in a single-person household, when it is still early enough for travelers to be in the street (approximately 8 p.m. in Sharon). Otherwise, the menorah is lit without blessings.

During Chanukah, no new activity should be started within half an hour of nightfall. If a person was already involved in an activity, he can continue. However, the menorah should be lit as soon as possible after night has begun.

If a person cannot light the menorah after nightfall, the candles can be lit about 1 hour before nightfall (Ask a Rabbi for the earliest possible time, if necessary.) However, there must be enough fuel to burn at least half an hour after nightfall.

If the menorah was lit properly but some of the lights were extinguished unexpectedly, one is not obligated to rekindle them. Still, it is preferable to rekindle them without the blessings.

Since the obligation of lighting the candles is based on each house of residence—ner ish u’veisothe menorah should be lit at home even if one is away for the evening, as long as the person is sleeping at home.

When away from home for the night, a person should light a menorah for himself in the place he is staying—that is considered to be the person’s residence. If there is no menorah available, a small amount of money should be given to the host to purchase a portion of the materials used in the host's menorah. If one is staying at a place such as a hospital, nursing home, or hotel where one cannot light a menorah, a small amount of money should be given to someone to light a menorah for him.
On Friday evening the menorah must be lit before the Shabbos candles. There must be enough fuel to burn at least 30 minutes after the appearance of three stars (this year, 5:29 p.m.). Regular Chanukah candles will not burn that long and other candles should be used. The earliest one may light the menorah erev Shabbos this year is 3:21 p.m.

There are various customs regarding the order of the havdala and lighting the menorah after Shabbos. Each person should follow his custom. If there is no custom, the havdala should be recited first.


Brochos (Blessings)


On the first night of Chanukah, three blessings are recited: 1) l’hadlik ner shel Chanukah, 2) she’asah nisim la’avoseinu, and 3) shehechiyanu. On the other nights, only the first two blessings are recited .The blessings should be completed before the candles are lit.

Immediately after the first candle is lit, it is customary to begin to say haneiros halalu.

If one forgot to make the blessings before beginning to light the menorah, all of the appropriate blessings can be recited unless the lighting has been completed. In that case, the blessing must be skipped.

If a person cannot light the menorah and will not be able to have someone light for him, then the blessing of she’asa nisim (and shehechiyanu on the first night) should be recited when seeing a lit menorah.


In Shemonah Esrei and in Birkas Hamozon a special prayer, Al Hanisim, is added for all eight days of Chanukah. If one forgot to recite this prayer, the following rules apply: 1) If the name of G-d at the end of the blessing was not mentioned yet, one should go back, say the Al Hanisim prayer, and then continue from there, or 2) If the name of G-d has been mentioned, then the Al Hanisim prayer can be added to the end of the Shemonah Esrei before saying yi’hiyu l’ratzon imrei fi. In Birkas Hamazon, a special harachoman is recited—Harachaman hoo ya’aseh lanu nisim v’nifla’os k’sheim she’asisa la’avoseinu bayamim haheim bazman hazeh (then the Al Hanisim prayer is inserted, starting with bimei Matisyahu ...).


Whole Hallel is recited throughout the holiday. Tachanun and Lamnatzei’ach are omitted.



Lighting the Menorah


Men, women, and children who reach the age of understanding are required to light the Chanukah menorah. Married women fulfill their obligation through their husbands.

We fill the menorah with candles or oil from right to left. However, we light the menorah from left to right.

The prevalent custom is to have each person light the amount of candles corresponding to the day of the holiday (first night—1 candle; second night—2 candles).

One cannot use the Chanukah light for personal needs. Therefore, an extra candle, a shamash, is lit, just in case the light from the menorah is inadvertently used. The shamas for the first half hour h should be distinguishable from the other lights, for example, higher than the other lights.

Since Yehudis, the daughter of Yochanan Kohen Gadol, played an important role in the Chanukah victory, the custom is that women don't do housework for the first half hour while the Chanukah lights are burning.

Some Thoughts on Chanukah, כמה מחשבות על חג החנוכה


Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller writes:

When you think of the victory of light over the darkness that the ancient Greeks tried to spread, you can't help but think of the world as it is today, sit by the light and know that there is light in the darkest times.

Everything that we think of as "light," becomes "dark" in a world in which there is no spirituality. The Greeks weren't so different than today's "spokesmen". They saw the human being as the world's center.

Everything that makes you a member of a unique people demands that you see things very differently. You didn't emerge as a Jew out of nowhere. G-d promised the patriarchs that the traits that they developed would live in their descendants beyond their lifetimes. Their heritage is reflected in our value system.

The three most severe sins are idol worship, sexual immorality, and murder. Avraham's dedication to chessed (kindness) gives us the fortitude to resist temptation to the sins of sexual immorality. You can't be a giver and at the same time an exploiter; the Greeks negated this principle completely. To them, any relationship that gives gratification to the person more in power is legitimate and healthy.

Today the plague of intermarriage is the way secular humanism, an offspring of Greek thought, is still conquering us, not physically but by making our uniqueness as a people irrelevant. It feels like the most normal thing in the world.

Yitzchak's dedication to G-d was absolute. The ultimate "idol" is human ego. The moment that Yitzchak showed his willingness to give his life to do Hashem's will, he transmitted the ability to stand up and deny every possible form of idol worship to his descendants.

The Greeks' obsession with defiling the Bais HaMikdash showed how completely they understood (not necessarily consciously) that it opposed everything they stood for. It was a place of miracles, awareness, depth, joy! The core of all of this was a transcendental, invisible G-d who could never be totally understood even by the greatest human minds. But the heritage that the Greeks left us is the way looking at every religious ritual as something irrelevant at best and contemptuous at worst. The only god they and their descendants still worship is human ego.

Yaakov grasped the nature of the soul and its eternal connection to G-d. He could never justify murder. By definition, murder means killing someone who is of no threat to you. That would mean somehow seeing him as "unnecessary" in the greater scheme of things. Yaakov saw other people as eternal, precious, and attached to G-d. To the Greeks, human life had only relative value. They habitually abandoned deformed infants to die of exposure on their hauntingly beautiful hillsides.

The clash between these cultures continues.

These issues are not new. The Greek exile is very much with us emotionally and sociologically. The issues are still the same.

There is a fourth issue as well, one that you have to take to heart if you want to make a change. The Haftorah (prophetic portion read after the Torah reading on Shabbos) tells us not just about the three grave sins, but also of one that is worse still. It is oppression of your fellow man. In a similar vein, the sages tell us that there are three cardinal sins, idol worship, sexual immorality, and murder, but that lashon hara parallels all of them in its gravity.

Lashon hara means saying negative or damaging things about your fellow Jew for no positive purpose. It reflects disintegration of our sense of peoplehood, and our grasp of the unique spirituality of each one of us. This is the tikkun that we face now more than ever, because "fixing" the other issues is almost impossible without an underlying sense of love and unity.

Yosef epitomizes both. His early revelation of his dreams reflected not (as people think) his ego as much as his sense of responsibility for his brothers. This comes out more when, as the later parshas reveal, he was able to put aside every normal human desire to humiliate them in return for their betrayal. His sense of their significance was based on his recognition of what it meant to be part of the Jewish people.

In Yosef's own moment of temptation, when Potiphar's wife tried to seduce him, what saved him was seeing Yaakov's image before his eyes. Yaakov was able to pass on to his children what the glory of being a human being is really about. The reason that Yosef resisted her (even though, as the Midrash says, she threatened to have him tortured to death), was that immorality would defile him as a human being. His esteem for his own humanity was the basis of his esteem for his brothers.

Chanukah is the time when you can look at the light of the menorah, and let it reflect the light of your soul, and the souls of the people in your life! Enjoy watching the flames, eating the latkes and/or sufganiot, and have a great holiday.

Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Thursday, December 1, 2011

Critical Days are Coming, ימי קריטים קרובים

As we all know, bad days are coming.  The situation in the world is not good.  Anytime from now, a nuclear war might erupt.  I've been following the news in the Middle East more intently now.  I do feel the urgency. Rabbi Mizrachi speaks from his heart.  He's trying to save as many Jews as possible.

He repeats from the Zohar that 15 days before Moshiach comes, the world will be in total darkness, likening the Plague of Darkness to this one where the wicked Jews and Goyim will be destroyed modestly.  He reminded us about the last mini plague of darkness that engulfed the East Coast from NJ to Maine for a week, which was caused by the sudden early snowstorm brought by Hashem.  I said that it was a preparation for these upcoming massive Plague of Darkness as predicted in the Zohar.  He too said something in a similar vein.

He reiterates that Torah and gemilus chasadim are important for the Jewish men, and modesty for the Jewish women.  If I had known what I know today, I would have taken modesty more seriously.  I was taught that the three important mitzvos for Jewish women are candlelighting, separating the dough from challah and family purity.  When I was in Israel, I wasn't careful about my necklines as I wasn't informed or learned about kosher necklines.  This type of topic is usually only taught in seminaries, and I wasn't a seminary girl.  A Baalas teshuvah -- yes.  But I've learned so much in the past few months about modesty from the same Rabbi who taught seminary girls and published two books about it.  I hope my teshuvah counts. I'm also more attentive to slivers of hair revealed from my snood.  Skirts have to have at least 4 inches of ease at the hips. I left Facebook.  I am worried about the Jews today.  There has to be good reasons why Hashem kicked me out of Eretz Yisrael and back into the Diaspora -- to help me do teshuva in ways I would not have if I still remained in EY.  Baruch Hashem. This blog would not have come to be had I not left EY.  In EY, I was always worried and looking for parnasah, how to keep my family in the country without having to go begging for food at the special Kupah where poor people end up.  Blogging would have been out of the question.

He shows a short video clip at the end about a tzadik in Monsey and how he prays.



I hope we end up alive to greet Moshiach Tzidkaynu.  If not, my contributions to the world remains.

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

No Prayer Goes Unanswered, תפילה שלא נענית

Thanks to Chana, the mother of Shmuel HaNavi and the wife of Elkanan, our Sages have derived halachos of prayer using her as an example.  Chana was barren for many years, why did she only get up to daven at the mishkan after a long time?  Where was she all these years?  Why didn't she do it earlier? The answer can be found in the Book of Shmuel, as Rav Yedid Meyer teaches, that as soon as her husband, Elkana, responded to her that isn't he better than 10 sons, which means that he himself has given up on Chana having children, did Chana herself take charge and went up herself to the Mishkan in Shiloh and poured our her hearts to Hashem.  Chana believed that her husband's, a great tzadik in their time, prayers will be more powerful than her own. 

We are taught to never give up on praying to Hashem, even though we don't necessarily get our prayers answered right away.  No prayer goes unanswered.  Hashem hears everything, He may not grant us our wishes because they are indeed not good for us.  We think we know better than our Creator.  Even though our prayer is always heard, even though the prayer may seem lost, it is not, as it may also benefit others.

Our Rabbis have taught that if you want something so badly, it is better to pray for that something for somebody else who wants it as well, not for yourself.  The one who prays for others gets his prayers answered first.  In addition, you can have someone else prays for you for the same thing.  I've never been involved in this type of arrangement, so I wouldn't know.  But there has been stories that this system works for some.

The goal of prayer is not simply to ask Hashem of our needs, really. It is to get closer to Hashem, to understand His Ways, to be one with Him while seeking the good for Am Yisrael, as we daven together for the needs of the Klal, as a collective. 

I find the Siddur to be a very powerful tool to understand Hashem, learn about the halachos of davening, connect to Tehilim much more deeply, and learn Hebrew vocabulary!  It takes me about one hour to finish Shacharis from start to finish (except for the formal Torah reading on certain days, as I don't daven in shul in the mornings, only privately).  I really appreciate the Siddur even more after I've taken upon myself the importance of each different facet of Shacharis.  

To learn from the Rav Meyer's class on Sefer Shmuel, go here.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Mechilah (Forgiveness), מחילה

On Yom Kippur we come before G-d, confess our sins and ask for forgiveness. These are regarding the mitzvot of Bein Odom L’Makom, between man and G-d. But the sins of Bein Odom l’Chavayro, between man and man, we must ask forgiveness of our fellow before we can receive Divine forgiveness.

On our blog we make mistakes. Occasionally we copy something without attribution. Sometimes we write something too harsh or too provocative. We cannot know our reader’s context, sometimes something we write hurts a reader. Sometimes we quote Torah without stating a source.

For these and other failures, please forgive us.

Source: Reb Gutman Locks, of Mystical Paths
Moriya's Place seconds everything Reb Gutman Locks says and asks for mechilah (forgiveness), as well. The writers at Moriya's Place are not angels, and we don't know who our readers are.  May each Jew advance each year towards meriting a geulah shelaimah b'rachamim from Hakadosh Baruch Hu so that our matzav as a collective will only be good, and that we merit inheriting Eretz Yisrael properly through the coming of Moshiach, bimhairah v'yameinu.

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

A message for our Jewish youth, הודעה בשביל בני נוער היהודי

Jewish youth should watch and learn from this.

T'shuva is Real Joy, תשובה היא שמחת אמיתי

T'shuva, according to Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller, is real joy, even though it involves steps to get there. The joy that we obtain from doing teshuva is the realization that we are one step closer to the Source of Joy (Hashem). T'shuva is hard work, but it's rewards are real joy. It's a big accomplishment, like striving for an Olympic Gold medal, but MORE.  You can't buy Olam Haba with a gold medal.  You can buy a special spot in heaven that not even a tzadik can get there -- a place where only a ba'al teshuvah can get to.

Hashem helps us when we commit to doing teshuva. We are never alone. We just want to want it. Hashem will help us remove the guilt associated with the wrongs we did in life and help us move forward, closer to Him.

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Rubashkin's Selichos, סליחות רובשקין

Be inspired by Reb. Shalom Mordechai HaLevi ben Rivkah(Rubashkin) as he describes his selichos in Cell 219. If he can do it while incarcerated, why can't the other "free" Jews do it with 1/2 the kavanah?
With Rosh Hashanah approaching, letters flowing with heartfelt wishes for a kesivah vachasimah tovah have reached cell 219 in Otisville, where Sholom Mordechai Rubashkin is incarcerated. One note ended with a question: “I couldn’t stop thinking of you during Selichos… Were you able to get a minyan together as you did for other Yomim Tovim? Who came? What was it like?”

The following reply came from Sholom Mordechai:

“Regarding your question, there was no possibility of putting a minyan together. All the prisoners are locked in their cells after 9:30. There used to be a policy where, occasionally, on some nights, they would leave the cell doors open into the common area where inmates could watch a show or talk together. This created a sense (actually, an illusion) of a limited amount of freedom, if only for a very short while.

“But this small humane gesture has been taken away, and now, at 9:30 every night, the inmates return to their cells and are locked in. The cell itself is a very small space, originally designed to house one person. Two people are now forced to share this area, leaving no personal space for either one. Stripped of every shred of privacy, even for when nature calls, a human being is robbed of the most basic dignity, degraded to the level of something sub-human.

“This past Motzo’ei Shabbos, Selichos night, the doors locked as usual at about 9:30, and I sat down to my melava malka. I washed, made Hamotzie, and munched on a roll and tuna fish. I sang some songs quietly, grateful that the person in the cell with me is understanding and doesn’t object to what I’m doing. I explained to him that at about one o’clock in the morning, I will have to daven and he said, ‘No problem.’

“I spend some time reading stories of Eliyahu Hanovi, make a lechayim, and finish with Birchas Hamazon. I try to learn some words of Torah in preparation for Selichos and, finally, it’s 1 a.m. I stand up wearing my gartel, with the copies of the Selichos in my hand. For a split second, I’m conscious of the weird sight I make to my cellmate. But I quickly close my eyes, banishing my surroundings and flying far away.

“I envision myself standing with other Yidden in shul, anticipating the chazzan beginning ‘Ashrei yoshvei veisecha.’ With his words ringing in my ears, I begin Selichos, not as a solitary Yid alone in a jail cell, but together in shul with fellow Yidden, pleading to Hakadosh Boruch Hu for rachamei Shomayim.

“I try to focus on the peirush hamillos, the simple meaning of the words. When Ashrei is finished, I wait for the imaginary chazzan to say Kaddish, trying to bring alive in my mind the nusach hatefillah, and following along, word for word. Mentally, I join in with a throbbing ‘Amein, yehei Shemei rabbah mevorach le’olam ule’olmei olmaya yisborach.’ I continue, pausing at the places where the chazzan sings the last pesukim of a section and singing along with him.

“Then it comes to ‘Bemotzo’ei menuchah,’ the main piyut, and now the neshamah is pumping life into a weary body, opening up my heart and the wellspring of longing. ‘Shema koleinu!’ I plead to Hashem. I know He is listening. ‘Al tashlicheinu milfonecha - Don’t cast us away from You!’ My loneliness and separation from where I want to be and where I belong overwhelms me.

“‘Hashem, show us You are with us, ruach kodshecha al tikach mimenu. Don’t take your holy Presence from us. Even in this lowly place of tumah, be here with me. In this place of darkness and despair, all I have is You.’

“The Selichos goes on to describe the many times in our history that Hashem has answered our fathers in a time of need. This gives me a surge of bitachon that He is with me, right now, right at this very emotion-laden moment. I know He will show us mercy and take me out of this golus.

“‘Rachmana de’anei le’aniyei, aneina. Oh Merciful One, answer the poor and impoverished! Rachmana de’anei lisvirei leeba, aneina. Oh Merciful One, answer the brokenhearted!’”

“It is over so quickly. If I could only remain inside these moments, this place of kedushah that feels so very real, more real than the cold, unbearable jail cell. But I am pulled back inside the bars and the sordidness of this place. I put away the Selichos and say Krias Shema Al Hamitah. I place the negel vasser cup in the shissel, suddenly conscious of being watched. I realize that the person in my cell has been staring at me, studying the whole strange scenario. He comes down from his perch on the top bunk without saying a word and shuts the light.

“Yes, I am still in cell 219 in Otisville. But I believe be’emunah sheleimah that Hashem, in His infinite mercy, will soon free me and bring me home with Klal Yisroel. Amein, kein yehi ratzon.”

Source: Yated Ne'eman
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